hi chris,youve been busy!!!
1,first and reverse are more affected by an oily/sticky clutch because engine power is most direct at such low gearing,harder to slip the clutch for a smooth start.
2,the clutch cover plate/pressure plate will not be dented thro abuse,thats prob just manufacturing marks from the pressing of the steel blank.
3.the fly wheel and clutch and bell housing should just be dusty,maybe a slight oil stain around the gearbox input shaft allowable
4.your pics show massive oil contamination to the whole area,im gna stick my neck out and say your gearbox is ok.
5,you need to replace the seals in the input shaft ''nose'' thats behind the release bearing thats clipped to the release fork by the input shaft in your gearbox,thats where the oil is coming from most probably
6.you need a new clutch kit mate :cool:
anyone is welcome to shoot me down in flames on my diagnosis!!!,but thats what i see,and thats what i would do if the car was mine.