When i replaced mine I wire brushed the threads that were visible, Soaked them with plusgas and left them overnight to soak, Before I tried to undo the bolts I tried nipping them up slightly to see if they moved which they did then I unscrewed the nut one turn at a time working the nut back and forth on the thread as not to put any strain on the bolt, the bolt heads are welded on the inside of the cross member and if you break the weld it would be a <//["> job to replace them, so gently does it.
If all else fails wash off any oil on the retaining nuts and warm up with a blow torch, Keep a fire extinguisher handy just in case.