I realise that I have already left the impression of being an idiot but today capped the lot. Having picked up my sump gasket, I paraded home to remove the sump. As I got my axle stands from the shed I passed the box of engine bits and had a looky see. There, on the top, in a clear bag, with the word GASKETS emblazoned on it....................was a new sump gasket along with a selection of others.
Anyhoo, new gasket on and fresh oil................too early to say but no seepage and had it running. The bolts on the sump were barely tight when I removed it and I think this didn't help with the problem.
Not being a mechanic or knowing much other than brakes/oil/etc and doing the whole job myself (having only three fingers as well....yes they let a guy with only three fingers drive unmodified, manual cars) I feel I deserve one of those Karma things that you get. I don't know how or why you get them but it wouldn't half cheer me up.